::Choices Vs Fate::

Choices vs. Fate 

Once in a while, I ponder the question of whether a different choice in life would have drastically changed my outcome. And I often wonder, do we really have choices or are we destined by fate?*questioning myself*

Perhaps there is such a thing as reincarnation, where the laws of the universe work whether you believe in them or not; where karma is dealt to our particular situations because of what we have done or not done, good or bad. 

This also includes the idea that 'like attracts like' and any negative or positive energies we release toward others bounces back to us a hundred times greater. *when we talk about karma;its always happened in Hindi film.off course i knew!=)*

So, getting back to choices vs. fate, I realize that certain situations in my life have caused me to choose certain paths - whether I was trying to get away from a bad situation or whether a particular choice just appealed to me more. The key thing to understand, though, is that it isn't so much the choice (because no matter what we choose, it has a way of working out to what we need to learn anyway) it is the way we reacted to the situation that is the real issue. How we 'choose' to react is far more important than the choices we make.

My ibu used to tell me, "You can't avoid problems in life. Every time you try to go around them, they meet you in the face. You have to go through them and deal with them in order to get rid of them." *yes! you are right bu, i am patiently faced it!*

Do I believe in fate? To a certain extent I do. I believe that we are put here to learn lessons, and we have to keep coming back until we get it right. We are born into the very situations we need in order to learn what we must learn. But once again, it is how we react that is the key to getting us out of our own hells. How we react is the key to turning our fates around. That's when great things start to happen in your life - miracles that you might not ever have experienced had you not learned the lesson you were dealt. *i always dream that i would be miracles come day by day to me,but it never yet. ermm maybe 1day.i believe!*

And do I believe we have choices? Oh, yes! But only if we are ready for them... only if we can change our negatives into positives.The key here is how we react determines our happiness, our fate, and our choices. So, start by putting those positive energies out there and watch the magic happen!

*1 formula created by me:: own decision + effort = fate + fully happiness!*

~Good Night Dear~